When you grow, you will discover that it defended lies, deceived you
yourself or suffered for foolishness.
Are you a good fighter, do not blame him, but neither
let your mistakes be repeated.
Paulo Coelho. Forgiveness frees
bonds that embitter the soul and the body sick.
Forgiveness is an expression of love.
Many of our attempts to confuse forgiveness fail because essentially what we refuse to forgive and the ability to belittle the events or forgotten.
Forgiveness is not forgetting, not forgetting what happened to us.
not mean to excuse or justify a particular event or misbehavior. Not accepting what happened with resignation.
not deny the pain.
not minimize the events.
Forgiveness does not mean to stop caring about what happened, or to agree with someone who hurt you.
simply means putting aside those negative thoughts that caused us pain or anger.
does not mean you agree with what happened, nor that they approve.
mistakenly believe that forgiveness should
inexorably lead to reconciliation with the aggressor.
us believe that forgiveness is close friends of our aggressor
and for that reason we reject it.
does not imply that at all, forgiveness is ONLY FOR YOU and nobody else.
Do not expect that the person who attacked us change or modify their behavior because the most probable is that this person does not change and indeed, sometimes get even worse.
Forgiveness is based on the acceptance of what happened.
Unforgiveness binds you to people from the resentment.
you have chains.
Forgiveness should be performed "without expectations" without waiting for anything to happen. If we expect the offender to accept his mistake, we will be waiting in vain and wasting our time and energies in an apology that will never come.
If you are expecting this reaction, after being forgiven, for I really do not forgive from the heart still waiting for compensation, compensation. We anchored in the problem, in yesterday, wanting to get paid for our pain.
So we have not forgiven, and whoever is in control of our lives is the EGO.
EGO that wants to punish or charge all costs to the aggressor. There
anything or anyone that can compensate the pain caused in the past, the past has no way be changed. Any kind of revenge or retribution may correct the moments of sadness and desolation which we live, how bad we feel. While waiting for an apology, which acknowledges its error and none of that will change the facts, what happened in the past, we only want to feed our ego, our thirst for justice wrong focused.
Unforgiveness is the poison more destructive to the spirit as it neutralizes the emotional resources you have.
Forgiveness is a statement that we can and must be renewed daily.
often the most important person to have to forgive is yourself for all the things that were not the way you thought. We accept that we
APPRENTICES! Forgiving
from our hearts, we look at the facts as they happened
and then decided to let them go, let them in yesterday.
That lesson is already learned and we've managed to overcome the negative circumstances
we played live.
right so you can be forgiven. Remember
with the rod you measure, you will be measured ...
Therein lies our weakness
will wander our exaltation.
Nietzsche.
yourself or suffered for foolishness.
Are you a good fighter, do not blame him, but neither
let your mistakes be repeated.
Paulo Coelho. Forgiveness frees
bonds that embitter the soul and the body sick.
Forgiveness is an expression of love.
Many of our attempts to confuse forgiveness fail because essentially what we refuse to forgive and the ability to belittle the events or forgotten.
Forgiveness is not forgetting, not forgetting what happened to us.
not mean to excuse or justify a particular event or misbehavior. Not accepting what happened with resignation.
not deny the pain.
not minimize the events.
Forgiveness does not mean to stop caring about what happened, or to agree with someone who hurt you.
simply means putting aside those negative thoughts that caused us pain or anger.
does not mean you agree with what happened, nor that they approve.
mistakenly believe that forgiveness should
inexorably lead to reconciliation with the aggressor.
us believe that forgiveness is close friends of our aggressor
and for that reason we reject it.
does not imply that at all, forgiveness is ONLY FOR YOU and nobody else.
Do not expect that the person who attacked us change or modify their behavior because the most probable is that this person does not change and indeed, sometimes get even worse.
Forgiveness is based on the acceptance of what happened.
Unforgiveness binds you to people from the resentment.
you have chains.
Forgiveness should be performed "without expectations" without waiting for anything to happen. If we expect the offender to accept his mistake, we will be waiting in vain and wasting our time and energies in an apology that will never come.
If you are expecting this reaction, after being forgiven, for I really do not forgive from the heart still waiting for compensation, compensation. We anchored in the problem, in yesterday, wanting to get paid for our pain.
So we have not forgiven, and whoever is in control of our lives is the EGO.
EGO that wants to punish or charge all costs to the aggressor. There
anything or anyone that can compensate the pain caused in the past, the past has no way be changed. Any kind of revenge or retribution may correct the moments of sadness and desolation which we live, how bad we feel. While waiting for an apology, which acknowledges its error and none of that will change the facts, what happened in the past, we only want to feed our ego, our thirst for justice wrong focused.
Unforgiveness is the poison more destructive to the spirit as it neutralizes the emotional resources you have.
Forgiveness is a statement that we can and must be renewed daily.
often the most important person to have to forgive is yourself for all the things that were not the way you thought. We accept that we
APPRENTICES! Forgiving
from our hearts, we look at the facts as they happened
and then decided to let them go, let them in yesterday.
That lesson is already learned and we've managed to overcome the negative circumstances
we played live.
right so you can be forgiven. Remember
with the rod you measure, you will be measured ...
Therein lies our weakness
will wander our exaltation.
Nietzsche.
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